The Candle

3rd Quarter of 2011

2011-10-21T23:29:00.002+08:00

As we always say 'Time Flies".

Here we are, at the end of October already! What have you all been doing? Busy busy busy? Or enjoying yourselves at some nice place in the world?

Let there be joy in whatever you do. For life is short and we got no time to lose!

October, be nice as we welcome November and...counting down to the end of 2011

New Year New Hope

2011-01-09T14:40:00.001+08:00

time for new goals,
time for new thoughts,
time for new deadlines,
time for new challenges.

what more new things coming your way?

The Working Attitude

2010-12-08T22:49:00.002+08:00

some people just do not have that.

in the working world, there are really million types of people. Zillions maybe! its just torturing to even think about it.

what is the right working attitude?

i wish i am somewhere towards the postive end. what about you?

Mrs Lee - Mother of Our Nation

2010-10-04T15:28:00.002+08:00

MM Lee's wife passed on last weekend.

A very sad piece of news indeed.

What are your first thoughts when heard of it?

Majority was sad & pity.

Mrs Lee played an important role in MM Lee's life. That, is more than enough to shape us where we are today.
Hope she heads for a better place now.

RIP, Mrs Lee.

忙

2010-06-10T12:10:00.000+08:00

Over Caught Up

2010-05-24T13:36:00.002+08:00

Wow..3 months have passed since my last entry! Time flies! In fact, i am overly caught up with work, life and friends. Time is never enough when you have an endless list of activities/things to carry out! Agree?

You'll only realised that you still have this, that & those undone... and tons of deadlines to meet. We are always busy with stuffs... never really had the time to sit and relax for 30mins at least... If i can ever have a 30min, free and undisturbed, i will go to the beach, sit and listen to the waves...maybe some cycling is good too.

Why is my life so busy, yet so boring?

Time to do something about it before the year ends! Coz, it's June in another week! Why dont scientists invent something to stop the clock? Maybe slow it down? Okok... i know! Take out the battery!

HAHA.

A Better Life

2010-03-07T10:44:00.000+08:00

We just ended February. Along with it was the Lunar New year. How was everything for you? I hope it was a good one. For me, i had a good one. It was a time to catch up with people that you seldom see, things you seldom do, games you seldom play, food you seldom eat and rest you seldom have.

Before the Lunar New Year, there were loads to accomplish. During the period, things kind of settled down...quietened down as well. We are in March now..things are getting back to normal, routine is back again. Everyone is back to working, stressing, depressing..whatever is available out there.

I guess at certain point of time, we all need to slow down. A break is all we need to have a better life. This is my definition of a 'better life'. I bet there are people who disagrees with me. As long as u deem fit, do it.

I guess the next time i blog, it will be the 2nd quarter of 2010 -- April.

The One

2010-01-05T11:21:00.002+08:00

Everyone of us have a someone or something or maybe even an animal in our life. Maybe that someone is yourself. It is the very source of motivation that is causing the push effect. Pushing you to go further, to move on or to do whatever your heart desires.

The one for me...it disappeared into thin air. I could not find it anymore. The feeling i am experiencing is not lost. Maybe it is. Whatever it is, i need something new. Maybe a new me even.

Have you found the one for yourself? Because, everyone needs a motivation source.

Year End Anticipation

2009-11-03T15:21:00.003+08:00

i seemed to be blogging monthly. Have not found time to log in to blogger since my last post. Its November again...and 2009 is ending very soon. We have come to an end again. Everyone is talking about 2012. Will 2009 be the last..the Final? Nobody knows.

I guess most are still anticipating the year end holidays, $$$, Christmas etc.

Anticipation keeps some of us going.

29 Sept 2009

2009-10-04T21:34:00.002+08:00

Christopher & Fann finally tied it.

the wedding was sweet..but was kindof overly commercialised? maybe they should hold a wedding without the media..one with family and close friends.

anyway..congratulations!

坚持

2009-09-13T20:02:00.002+08:00

每个人都有对不同事，有不同的观念和看法。很多人在很多时候没有基本的坚持就放弃了。但也有人不断努力，坚持到底。。怎样都不肯放弃。

但在不同人的眼中，坚持可以是固执。不坚持，也可以是没有毅力。。。你怎样看？大家都会有不同的意见，看法和观点。。只是看你站在哪个立场和角度去看某件事。

只要认为是对的，值得的。大家都应该坚持下去！大家，加油！

Finally

2009-07-30T11:59:00.000+08:00

i finally found sometime to update my blog! Congratulate me someone! Okay, am trying to express how happy i am to be able to post an entry on my pathetic back dated blog.

anyway..have been overly caught up with work, work and More Work! i cant imagine how i spent my time and life these few months...the only word to describe was 'horrible'

alright..time to get back to my horrible mess...

Ciao!

Lagging behind

2009-05-22T14:04:00.002+08:00

Seems to be lagging on the updates of my blog. Has been busy with stuffs that everyone does. Well well..life still goes on with the impact of H1N1 influenza. Hope they come up with the immunisation in the shortest time possible to minimize the quantity of people going to hell or heaven.

Weather has been unpredictable these days...ahem..am also down with cough and some other symptoms of a cold. H1N1???? I guess not..

速度

2009-04-26T15:07:00.004+08:00

现在的社会，什么都强求速度。在外用餐，都要吃得快一些因为不是时间不足就是座位不足。在公司，老板，上司，同事都在崔。在家里，家务事多得不得了。。天天都有做不完的事情。。。

试问，不加快速度，行吗？

渴望

2009-03-14T23:47:00.002+08:00

有没有试过很渴望一样东西？那种心情，无法用言语来形容。每一个举动，每一个事物。。好像都会引起注意。是过于紧张？还是太渴望？过于渴望的心情。。慢慢变成了担忧。我想。。。。。渴望也是一种欲望吧..减少渴望,但要增加些什么呢?

In the Blink of an Eye

2009-03-05T14:41:00.002+08:00

Time just flew pass. And now, we are in the month of March. Gosh, it is just too fast to imagine. What have we done for the first 2 months of 2009? Seems to be flashing pass just like that and nothing being done? Well well...life is just the way it is now - Nothing seems to be done whenever you look back.

Anyway, it is now time to get back to serious matters -- WORK! Damn it.

牛转乾坤

2009-01-28T18:35:00.003+08:00

今年是牛年。祝福大家牛年行大运，财源滚滚来。
希望今年会是个平安年。今年我希望可以在事业顺利，身体健康，荷包满满。。。哈哈~ 我想，大家也跟我一样吧？最重要的，国泰民安！

恭喜恭喜!

Christmas Wishes

2008-12-16T15:07:00.003+08:00

Seasons Greetings!

Christmas is here again... In the recession period, does it have any negative effect? I guess so ya? But i can see people making effort to celebrate christmas. Gifts may be small..but the effort and thought is bigger than anything else.

Christmas isn't all about gifts, chocolates and candies. It is a season for sharing. With families, friends or even a stranger...the gift of sharing. Share an umbrella with a stranger..it makes u feel as warm as receiving a gift..

And though Xmas cards are a waste of papers somehow or another, but it carries more than just christmas wishes. It is the conveying of cares and love for people you put in the corner of your heart all the time...despite not meeting often, not chit-chatting on phone for months etc... :)

Whatever it is, MERRY CHRISTMAS PEOPLE!

2008 的尾声

2008-12-13T09:49:00.001+08:00

2008。。很多事情发生
好像一年比一年更遭
来临的一年会如何
我不敢奢望会更好
只求生活安稳
大家健康和平安
这样已再好不过了
你们说，对吗？

Stuck @ BKK

2008-11-29T00:06:00.002+08:00

Many are stuck and are unable to return home. I hope no one is in danger over at the airport of BKK. May peace be restored soon...

Mr Obama

2008-11-08T14:03:00.000+08:00

Will the breaking of traditions bring about new change? Mostly are hoping for a change..a good one. But, will that be easy? I believe the coming journey will be full of challenges for Mr Obama. Way to go!

Love & Sex

2008-10-07T17:41:00.002+08:00

Which of it comes first? Many have different views. However, i feel that there is no right or wrong answers. Some people who had the latter can also happen to fall in love much later on. Though the possibility of it happening is maybe 0.1%, but it does happen. Maybe not you nor around you...somewhere, some place, some one...might have.

Be it love first, or sex first. Whichever...its all part and parcel of life.

天气

2008-09-24T17:37:00.003+08:00

最近的天气很难捉摸。一下热，一下冷。搞得我晕头转向。有时不知该开冷气还是不开冷气好。不开，又好像要热死。。。开，又觉得太冷。真令人头疼。。。大家要好好保重咯。不然很容易生病。

朋友有难

2008-09-11T17:38:00.007+08:00

如果朋友有难，第一时间就找你，你会做何感想？
如果朋友有事，第一个找你帮忙，你会不会答应？
如果朋友缺钱，第一时间向你借，你会不会拒绝？
如果朋友有钱，他/她会不会自动自发地送礼去给你？
如果朋友失恋，第一个找你诉苦，你会不会安慰他/她？

其实朋友，很多时候都只是肤浅的字眼。。。

寒

2008-09-08T14:32:00.003+08:00

天气寒冷，人心寒寒

太阳依旧，人心暖暖

人类情绪，天气影响

工作环境，天天受气

生活方式，忙忙碌碌

凡人生涯，无法形容

信

2008-08-30T14:59:00.007+08:00

这个字虽然简单，却同时非常不简单。

+信心
+自信
+信用
+信赖
+信任

要具备这些qualities其实不容易。不是随便一个人都可以做到。
有自信的人，不一定让人信赖
有信用的人，不一定有自信心
你信任别人，他不一定信任你

要背着一个信字做人，不简单。你又能背得上几个呢？

女人

2008-08-02T12:39:00.004+08:00

单身的女人有什么要求？对很多人来说，奢华的生活是一种享受。也许有一小部分认为家庭和事业是生活的主要。。。但我并不认为。那种买东西的快乐，很多女性应该了解吧？可能经济不景气，但是饭要吃，衣服要买，生活不会因为如此而停顿。我总觉得旧的不去新的不来。。。所以很多事都要去执行，去付出。。一直在原地踏步的生活并没有错。。但是会让自己感觉被遗弃。。被这个社会遗弃。。。人不一定要跟得上潮流。。但一定要不停进步。。东西要翻新，人也一样。女人不只是样貌要翻新，知识要增进。。实力也要超强。。。这样才不会被排挤！

女人，加油！

Never Hear What Was Not Meant For You

2008-07-21T09:31:00.004+08:00

Often, we tend to ignore when people are talking to us. However, we tend to listen when the things said are not meant for us to listen -- which we often hear people say " kaypo". After hearing those things that were'nt meant for us to hear, assumptions, guesses and illusions will start to cloud our mind. Eventually, nothing but trouble comes. At the end of the day, we feel upset about everything....but initially, things was not the way it was.

So, NEVER HEAR WHAT WAS NOT MEANT FOR YOU

Rainy Season

2008-07-10T15:02:00.002+08:00

Seems like the rainy season is back. Keeps raining in the morning when everyone awakes to find the gloomy sky. Well well, the sun needs a break i guess. :)

Hope the sun will be back soon. Without it, the sky seems to be sad. I miss the sunshine. It makes me feel charged and energised!

Rain rain go away....

Mr.萧敬藤

2008-06-27T16:43:00.004+08:00

爱一个人奋不顾身

喔辛苦也觉得平静

穿过巨大的伤口我找到当时的温柔

有始有终　就算收获

我从不在乎心痛

我用我的生命爱你

不让尖锐的世界伤害你

He is an attractive person with great vocals and emotions.

容忍

2008-06-20T22:23:00.006+08:00

Everyone has their own level of tolerance towards different things or people. I believe that the level of tolerance signifies alot.

我觉得人不管对事物还是人都有自己的极限。。。每个人的容忍度都不一样。我相信一个人如果对某些事物或对某些人的容忍度越高，就代表了那样东西对他来说有一定的重要或意义。。。但是，我也不否认很多时候，容忍是因为身不由己。可是，如果不重要，也没有必要容忍。容忍是为了大家好。如果两个人在一起，没有了容忍。。很多事都会闹得不欢而散吧？不管是情人，朋友，同事或是两个陌生人，其中一定有些容忍在里头。

如果你目前/曾经体会过一而再再而三地容忍一个人，是不是因为在乎呢？还是因为身不由己？如果因为在乎，那你自在乎的那位应该至少占据了你的情感50%。为什么呢? its because only the closest person to you will hit 90-100%, and that is the only reason why you can be tolerant no matter what he/she/they do to you. Be it a thousand or a million times, your tolerance is like an infinite immunity vaccine. Once injected, its for life. So, if that person you care for, hits 50%, its more than anything you can imagine. I guess if you ask me, my friends probably hits a range of 20-40%...only one or two will hit 50%. Like what i always hear from people "朋友可以有很多，但知己一两个就够了"。 i guess thats what it meant.

所以，有人类的地方，就有容忍的存在。它可是人类应该有的学问哦！Cheers to all who hit a 50%! :)

不药而愈

2008-06-09T16:12:00.002+08:00

如果我先放弃爱情
我的痛会不会变得不药而愈
看伤心不能痊愈
我始终相信爱你的勇气
明明说好是两个人一起去的旅行
怎么剩下我一个人欣赏孤寂
看伤心慢慢痊愈
我会好好的安慰我自己
宁愿相信你只是突然改变了决定
去了另一个美丽城市
也等着我入境

- 演唱者: 郭静-

有时候, 爱情让人变得没有自我, 没有自尊...也变得自欺欺人...爱,不应该是单方面的.
Maybe love isnt necessary afterall.

筹款募捐

2008-05-28T12:13:00.006+08:00

看了那场新加坡的筹款节目, 我有些搞不懂. 到底是要炫耀新加坡人多有爱心还是很有信心一定会筹到很多善款? 整个节目虽然很动人, 但是句句呼吁人民捐五十元或五十元以上的话语从主持人的口中说出..因该让有些人感到不舒服吧? 也许是人性的自卑...很难说.

我明白很多新加坡的朋友都深深了解灾民们的痛和苦...我也看到了他们那份向帮忙的意愿. 可是,捐不捐款,有没有爱心并不是看你捐的多或少. 难道捐出大笔的善款就代表了很多爱心吗? 那也未必... 我不否认这些钱可以帮助到很多灾民. 但是在这个时候,他们应该也需要更多的爱跟支持吧?

听到某艺人为了灾民,私自搞了一些活动等等...让我感到很敬佩. 这份心, 是金钱买不到的. 我希望人们在献出爱心的同时, 自己也可以从中学习...学习如何珍惜所拥有的和珍惜眼前的一切事物...大家要团结和加油! ! Small actions may be a huge motivation to others. You are already doing the right thing by living right.

惜福

2008-05-14T12:07:00.003+08:00

这几天听着中国四川的地震事件,大家是否也跟着担心也同时庆幸我们的地方没有天灾? 很多人都活在自我的世界里...所以也许对此事件并没有太多感想. 那并没有关系, 很多事情,我们并没有资格和立场去批评别人...但是, 我想请大家在吃着香喷喷的米饭时,把一分对那些没有饭吃的人的祝福带在心里,尽量不要浪费米饭! 悠闲地走在大街上时,不管雨天或大热天,要感谢上天让天气那么美好! 在睡得很甜美时,要记得感恩,感谢神让夜晚那么平静. 因为,比起很多人,我们也算是幸福的...虽然人会不断进步,不断更新,不断要求...但在与此同时,一定要懂得惜福!

男友

2008-05-08T12:27:00.003+08:00

一个懂得礼仪廉耻
一个懂得守口如瓶
一个懂得安分守己
一个懂得脚踏实地
一个懂得尊重别人
一个懂得体谅别人
在今时今日,还会不会有这样的一个人?
如果有, 记得通知我...
先谢谢你们了! 哈哈!!

A Promise

2008-04-23T10:28:00.004+08:00

I dont understand why people give promises. Ask yourself what you can do for others before saying things like FOREVER, ALWAYS, NEVER etc. Is there really a 'forever'?

Some people just put it across like any other words they say everyday. However, it never occurs to them that such simple words can create huge impact. Have you ever been questioned when you say " i love you forever" or "I'll never do that"? Did anyone posed a question to you: "How do you know that there is a forever? Doomsday might be nearing" or "How can you be sure you will never do that? You think you are a saint?"

I might sound ridiculous here. BUT, spend 2 mins to think about it. How can anyone be so damn sure about such things when you do not even know what is going to happen the very next minute! Therefore, do not give empty promises. It will only bring false hopes and hurt to the other person.

Today, if you have made a promise to someone, be sure to fulfil it.
Enjoy your Wednesday.

有时候的坚持

2008-04-16T11:53:00.002+08:00

一起长大的约定　
那样清晰　
打过勾的我相信
说好要一起旅行　
是你如今　
唯一坚持的任性

by: Jay Chou

I think everyone has something to hold on to. Things that cannot be erased from the memory and carved deep in the heart...No fulfilment might bring some hope that it might be fulfilled one day....is it foolish to think that way? I really think that there is no RIGHT or WRONG. Good day!

男人和女人的分别

2008-04-14T16:40:00.004+08:00

男人

有没有爱, 有性也无所谓,很正常.
女人就像衣服, 可以随时换新的.
女人只是打扫和传宗接代的工具.
女人是满足自己的一样物品而已.

女人

没有爱,也许就不会有性.
男人就像柱子, 可以随时依靠.
男人是分享自己梦想的另一半.
男人是帮忙分担压力的另一半.

雨天

2008-04-11T10:12:00.001+08:00

[你能体谅我有雨天偶尔胆怯你都了解过去那些大雨落下的瞬间我突然发现谁能体谅我的雨天所以情愿回你身边此刻脚步会慢一些如此坚决你却越来越远]

雨天 by Stephanie Sun

Hope that you guys are dry in this wet weather.

爱

2008-04-02T15:39:00.004+08:00

等待爱的叫花痴
追求爱的叫情痴
默默爱的叫白痴

爱人的人是伟人
被爱的人是圣人
没有爱的人叫寞人
太多爱的人叫废人
到处爱的人叫烂人

各种爱, 你属于那一种?

懂

2008-04-01T18:35:00.002+08:00

世上有很多东西我们认为我们懂
事实上有许多东西我们真的不懂
不懂的装懂
懂的又不说
不懂懂不懂的很让人头痛
懂的,想不懂
不懂的,很想懂
到底什么该懂
什么不该懂?

Pessimistic People

2008-03-27T18:04:00.003+08:00

Read in someone's blog today that there are many sad people around. However, many tends to overlook how big this problem could get. As everyone progresses in this world, they tend to carry more stuffs on their shoulders...as the load gets heavier, they feel more stressed...And as this stress increases, their mentality gets weakened. (but this depends on the will power of that individual). Some people can live with stress that you can never imagine it to be...whereas some cannot take stress. Working stress, Emotional stress, Studying stress, Relationship Stress...and many many more. Its never ending. You just cant finish naming them!

Thus, to step up to the standard of this world, everyone is carrying with them loads of stress and problems. Which is very sad to know. But what could we do? Nothing. We can only live cheerfully with hope that tomorrow will be a better day...Without hope, nothing else will come into the picture...because, no hope, no life.

So, i agree that we should live to be happy and meaningful no matter what happens.

雨天

2008-03-18T18:32:00.002+08:00

三月的雨天总算过去了.
近几天都看见了阳光.
心情也跟着阳光起来.
你们呢? 也一样被雨天弄得忧郁了吗?
希望太阳公公偶尔休假就好了...
云儿也可以出来飘...但不要大吐苦水就行了!
哈哈...

2008的三月

2008-03-11T17:10:00.003+08:00

不知不觉, 我们已经来到 2008年的1/4.
很快, 我们又会步入新的一年....
一切好像一个大圈圈...
人, 不管走到哪里, 还是会回到一样的起点.
那意味着很多事情,都由不得我们去控制.
改变, 反驳..到最后, 都不也一样回到起点吗?
那么, 我们还需要执著于那些无畏的事情吗?

看开一些, 或许, 在起与终的距离之间, 我们会体会到更多, 更美, 更值得去回忆的事物! 让我们为这可能更美丽的旅程放开胸怀吧! 只要肯踏出第一步, 你就值得被鼓励~

CrossRoads

2008-03-05T18:10:00.003+08:00

Ever been on the crossroad? i believe most do. A simple decision making process can end up complicated if your mind and heart is going the opposite direction. Im sure that feeling sucks big time doesnt it?

I too have been in such situations many times before. Career, Love, Property, Investment or even Friends. Sometimes, you just do NOT know what to do. Or, which is best. Everyone wants the BEST for themselves and their love ones. But, difficulties and obstacles occur each and every time. That is why you reach a crossroad, forcing yourself to choose 1 side. Like everyone says, its near impossible to have the riches of both worlds. Nothing is ever perfect. Imperfectability lives in each of us and in the whole wide world.

When you really have to decide, follow either your heart OR your mind. Opinions may be of good references...but, they ultimately arent the things you are thinking of. Either they are opposing or they are neutral. YOU have to be the one deciding what's the best option.

Alright. Im getting alittle out of box here. The bottomline is to be sure of yourself and not sit on the fence.

What's the best decision you've made so far? =)

Fugitive Escape

2008-03-03T10:37:00.003+08:00

The police said that they believe the fugitive that has escape is still in Singapore. Hopefully they can arrest him soon. Otherwise, the citizens will be endangered. No one knows what will he will do. Revenge? Probably.

School kids, workers, old folks. There are people everywhere on this small island. Should there be a small action, many will be affected.

Calling all citizens to be cautious and alert when doing marketing or shopping on the streets. Even when you are home, be sure to lock up your gate. Small precaution may be of great impact.

What's Going On Out There?

2008-02-28T14:23:00.005+08:00

Grumbles, complains and gossips, everywhere i go, many are unhappy. Why is it so hard just to hear something nice? Things like "I've had a great day!", "It's simply wonderful" etc...does not seems to exist at all! All the good things, the samaritans appears only on the news or papers. How often does it happen to me or you? I bet the unhappy moments are countless if i were to ask.

There are many problems out there. Salary,workload, human relations, colleagues, family members, disputes with neighbours, conflicts in interest and so on. Whatever you name it, everyone can come up with more than a thousand problems they are facing! Try asking someone you are on close relations with, i am sure they will start telling you millions of unhappy issues they encounter. I am not exagerating. Haha. Discontented faces appears everywhere! Buses, MRT, taxi drivers etc. People are complaining about everything!

But, if they were to compare themselves with people over the world, i am sure they are some out there who really deserve our deepest sympathy. They too deserve our admiration because they didnt let their problems get them down! They still strive hard to make a living, struggle to make ends meet. What's more is they arent complaining!

That is why, be happy with your current situation. You MIGHT NOT be the worse creature on earth. Be contented...smile, the problems you are facing will seem much smaller than you THOUGHT it was.

2008 Valentines'

2008-02-14T23:55:00.000+08:00

This year will be another lonely year. Nevertheless, Valentines' day will still be as nice with wonderful pals.. Had a great dinner, a fabulous evening.

For those who have a partner, pls be nice also when its not V'day. Human beings are sensitive creature, especially when it concerns a WOMAN. Being nice, considerate, caring and understanding can also bring smile and simple blissfulness to your special one.

Do not take things for granted as it leaves no place for turning back but only regrets.

Happy Valentines' Day to all!

Prosperity New Year

2008-02-07T09:53:00.001+08:00

Gong Xi Fa Cai !!!

Hope the year of the RAT will be a prosperous one! Again, its the beginning of the whole zodiac cycle...Rat being the first symbolised that we have all gone through another 12 years...good for some, bad for others...

Nevertheless, i truely hope everyone will try to do their best to the human race. Disasters and illnesses are befalling on human beings. Lets wish for the best in terms of health and world peace. Money comes in 3rd...cos it cant bring about the Top 2.

Happy New Year!

Dangerous Operation @ Woodlands

2008-01-30T17:45:00.000+08:00

Received a text from my friend last night, telling me how pissed off he was. He got FINED!! Haha...alright, laughing at this time doesn't really sound appropriate.

Okay..the thing is he got stopped by the officers @ the operations set up at woodlands to spot check and issue summons to those who are smoking or possess illegal cigarettes.

And according to my friend, the officers are not very polite to those who are 'innocent'.

Well well, what can i say? Those who got caught shouldnt do illegal stuffs. If people out there finds the local cigarettes unaffordable, then jolly well wuit smoking! You can even save the amount paid for those illegal cigarettes!!!!

Anyway, hope those who got fined will learn their lesson and be extra careful or stop doing illegal things the next time!

Good luck!

Chinese New Year

2008-01-08T14:15:00.000+08:00

8th day of the new year. Why does it seems like a long time has passed? I must be dreaming. Anyway, hope you all had a wonderful start for the new year.

In another 4 weeks, the year of the pig will be gone and the rat will arrive. Year of the Rat...i believe many will seek the fortune and 'feng shui' of their houses, career, family or love life. But to what extend is it true? It might play a part in our lives...but the main portion depends greatly on your heart and mind.

"一颗心,是主导生命的首要理由."
Have fun with the feng shui and all the festive mood & Preparation for the Year of the RAT.

A new YEAR

2008-01-02T17:49:00.000+08:00

Happy New Year to All!

A new year symbolises a new start.
To me, a new year is as though a bad guy turning over a new leaf.
Forget all the unhappy and look forward to a brand new beginning!

Hoping all out there, will start to live a better live, a healthier life and
most importantly, a more meaningful life!

All the best to you!

AWS

2007-12-26T12:33:00.000+08:00

Pathetically, everyone is stretching their necks. Its been another year. The time everyone is looking forward to..A time where all their efforts SHOULD be paid off. Its also a time where some are struggling to stay put or move on...Are you too, stuck??

In some companies, all employees are entitled to more than what they deserve (meaning a standard rate). which is good as it makes those who worked hard, even harder in the coming year and happier too! But, to some, maybe its human nature-GREED, that makes them think that the pasture over the other side is greener.

Anyway, anyhow, i hope people will learn to be more contented. Sometimes, things might not necessarily be better when you move on. Well, the decision still lies in your hands!

Hereby, wishing all out there, the best of luck for the coming year.

Seasons Greetings

2007-12-12T16:47:00.000+08:00

Its been extremely 'cool' out there this month! A 'shivering' December.
Apart from the rainy season, the climate is also changing so much
that maybe....SNOWING is possible?

Again, its the time of gifts.

Do you celebrate Christmas? i guess many does...even non-christians.
In the past, Christmas is often celebrated by only Christians. Over
the years, organisations and business associates have came up
with numerous ideas of projecting the image of 'CHRISTMAS'.
Fancifully wrapped presents, multi-colour light decorations,
beautiful images of Santa, cards, melodies of carols & hymns and
nice food.

Christmas have since became commercialized thereafter. BUT,
it has also been fun with the upcoming events and activities being
thought of by everyone out there...be it to make money or sincerely
indulging in the festive mood, i hope we can all enjoy this special day.

May all humans, pets, pests and each creature created smile widely.

Merry Christmas! =)

The Perfect Man

2007-12-05T16:12:00.000+08:00

为什么

2007-11-26T18:26:00.000+08:00

WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!
WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!
WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!
WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!
WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!
WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!
WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!
WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!
WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!WHY!

周杰伦-我不配

2007-11-19T12:36:00.000+08:00

"还来不及仔仔细细写下你的关于
描述我如何爱你　
你却微笑的离我而去
这感觉　已经不对　
我努力在挽回
一些些应该体贴的感觉我没给
你嘟嘴许的愿望很卑微在妥协
是我忽略　你不过要人陪
这感觉已经不对　我最后才了解
一页页不忍翻阅的情节你好累
你默背为我掉过几次泪多憔悴
而我心碎你受罪你的美我不配"

我很喜欢这首歌的歌词...

双面人

2007-11-12T18:32:00.000+08:00

有没有式过同时喜欢也讨厌一个人? 也不算讨厌...只是会有受不了的时候...?
这应该不算人格分裂吧? 哈哈

可是, 这个世界真的有很多'双面人'...在你面前对你好,但却在背后刺你一刀!
这种认真的很过分! 因为做了这样的事,还说自己有人格分裂!根本就是借题发挥!
好可恶!

Overwhelming Emotions

2007-11-02T12:04:00.000+08:00

Met up with an little friend of mine some time back...and she told me she is feeling so angry.

The funny thing is, she doesnt know the reason for being angry! Only that she feels angry at everyone...for everything.

I think she is just feeling unbalanced...each time she feels that anger is beoming too overwhelming...she just lets it loose. Meaning "exploded" irregardless of time,venue & person.
I think everybody has their own limits to anything and everything. Once they are stuffed with what they are able to contain...they just couldnt control themselves at all.

Maybe this friend of mine has a smaller 'space' and she gets frustrated as and when she feels 'bloated'...

Not anyone can tolerate what others can...if anyone could be understanding enough, it would be real nice to know that they care.

So, show more care & concern to people around you..especially those who really need.

EOY

2007-10-31T17:22:00.000+08:00

Time flies, i'm sure the counting down to the end of Year 2007 has started for some people out there in the world.

Its another new year. To set new resolutions, new goals or probably new dreams?

Each time i hear someone setting new resolutions, i wonder about the same issue - Does anyone really fulfil ALL those resolutions they set?

For myself, i just want the world to be a happier place to live in... This year, there has been so many incidents that ruined the peace in many people's home.

Hopefully there will be more good news in time to come.

Home

2007-10-22T16:19:00.000+08:00

What is a home?
How should a home be like?
Who should be in a home?

I think...

A home is a place where you feel secured and comfortable.
A home should be like heaven. Wonderful and full of smiles.
A home should have myself and things or people whom i love.

Even without a proper place, as long as your heart is true, anywhere can be home.

Someone, tell me these

2007-10-16T16:50:00.000+08:00

喜欢

2007-10-02T16:02:00.000+08:00

喜欢你的脸　

像天使那么动人

用微笑遮盖　

心中所有泪痕我看到你　

孤单自己平衡　

你让我心痛心疼

感谢你　

聆听我的孤寂　

陪我一同哭泣让我不害怕　

那落幕后的空虚我的心　

终於寻得知己疼惜

喜欢..就是如此的简单.

如果

2007-09-27T09:10:00.000+08:00

这个世上,如果有如果..什么都可能发生.
就因为没有,才会有遗憾.

There isnt any 'IFs' in this world...so cherish every moment.
Otherwise, regrets will come and there isnt any way to turn back time.
Many dont understand this. They continue to do what they THINK is right... which are hurting people & family around them.

Im only afraid that by the time they realized, its all too late...

Foolishness in a second will cause grievance for life.

不能说的秘密

2007-09-17T15:43:00.000+08:00

你说把爱渐渐

放下会走更远

或许命运的签

只让我们遇见

只让我们相恋

这一季的秋天

飘落後才发现

这幸福的碎片

要我怎麼捡

By Jay Chou

How many will have the chance

2007-09-05T15:23:00.000+08:00

A beautiful sunset is one of the biggest enjoyment of life.

难

2007-09-05T13:35:00.000+08:00

很多事真的很难理解,也无法解释.
自己的感受也很难控制.

想....很多....
做....很难....
说....没用....

很多时候...是看自己如何去面对. 往那个方向想, 是自己的选择.
选择放手, 自己会好过许多. 但是, 很多情绪...是不能够放开的...
只能默默承受咯...

这个世界就是如此地烦人.

If you have Friendly Love

2007-08-29T10:20:00.000+08:00

In times of need, appearance.

In times of weak, support.

In times of tears, comfort.

In times of sickness, care.

In times of poverty, treats.

In times of lonliness, company.

In times of blessing, smiles.

In this whole lifetime, its not easy to meet a true friend.

Its hard to meet a close friend.

Its even harder to meet someone with a Friendly Love.

有时候

2007-08-24T15:56:00.000+08:00

有时候, 看到的东西...不是心里所想...会有点难受.
有时候, 听到的...不是心里所盼望...也会难过.
有时候,在怎样控制...我还是会吃醋.

原来,又很多事,是不能够完美的.
我只能尽力做好当初许下的诺言.

No turning back?

2007-08-13T14:10:00.000+08:00

Ever enter in a 'ONE WAY' lane?

Im sure for those who drives, u can always do a turn back if there's enough space or no cars parked around that area...

What happens when u are at a dead end without any extra space for you to turn around?

Will you find ways to turn and hurt yourself? or
Will you try to get out without hurting yourself? or
Will you sit there and wait for help? or
Will you just sit and think you are going to die?

Its just about how you think.

Someday

2007-07-27T23:33:00.000+08:00

Here's how it goes...

Someday, im gonna find a way..
To keep you right next to me..
Right next to me..
You are the only one..
I wanna see..

Song By Alex Wang

NDP 2007

2007-07-19T21:23:00.000+08:00

Another year.

Another parade. Year after year, people has been waiting for the NDP parade. This year, finally something different. I guess things can be quite different with a change in the environment...Atmosphere is sure to be different as well. Lolx.

Again, i will be watching the parade at home.

Happy 42th Birthday, Singapore!

Melting

2007-07-11T18:02:00.000+08:00

I am a candle.
Am supposed to give light and warmth.
The weather's too hot recently.
Maybe im not needed for now.
Going in hiding.

Time for a re-treat.

Which one do you belong to?

2007-07-07T00:00:00.000+08:00

" Some People Make things happen.

Some WATCH what happens.

Some people WONDER what happened."

Love vs Friendship

2007-07-03T16:24:00.001+08:00

"Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into
obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing."

Elie Wiesel

Nobody

2007-06-30T11:25:00.000+08:00

Just want to be a nobody.
Alone without disturbance.

Am fedup with all worldly conflictions.
Exhausted from all commitments & responsibilities.

[Josh Groban's is definitely soul-filling for now]

Shutting down...(My Brain)

Inspirational song

2007-06-29T10:48:00.000+08:00

Don't give up
It's just the weight of the world
When your heart's heavy
I, I will lift it for you
Don't give up
Because you want to be heard
If silence keeps you
I. I will break it for you

Everybody wants to be understood
Well I can hear you
Everybody wants to be loved
Don't give up
Because you are loved
Don't give up
It's just the hurt that you hide
When you're lost inside
I'll be there to find you
Don't give up
Because you want to burn bright
If darkness blinds you
I. I will shine to guide you

Everybody wants to be understood
Well I can hear you
Everybody wants to be loved
Don't give up
Because you are loved (you are loved)
You are loved (you are loved)
Don't give up (don't give up)
It's just the weight of the world (you are loved)
Don't give up (don't give up)
Everyone needs to be heard (don't give up)
You are loved (you are loved)

By Josh Groban

A kind deed

2007-06-28T12:18:00.000+08:00

How often do we have opportunities to do others a kind deed? I guess chances can be quite low at times. That is why there are very few 'good samaritans' around. Most people are very self centred i guess. All they see is themselves. I dont deny that i am one selfish soul...but if given a chance, i will still do my part.

This morning, there is a couple sitting in front (in the bus) of me. Think they must be having some arguments as the girl seems to be 'cold' & unresponsive towards the guy. I saw a wallet under their chair. I waited. Not that i thought of taking it home...but for a good whole 2 minutes, i thought to myself that i better MMOB...I wonder why that thought came across in the first place! Gosh!

Anyway, i did informed the guy as they were getting down the bus..and it turned out that the wallet was really his. Just a tap on people's shoulder, i did something good.

Thats how simple it is.

Contradiction

2007-06-27T17:26:00.000+08:00

When there is hope, there will be disappointment. Iin this world, without hope, everything will be so boring...yet with hope, disappointment also comes along...

Whether to be hopeful or not, it really depends on the perception of each individual. Some may think that without hope, life is meaningless. A few may think otherwise. They will tend to be less hopeful as they are afraid of getting hurt when disappointment comes along.

There are also many out there who are like lost sheep. Not sure to be hopeful or not!

The question is are you hopeful of where u are right now?

Cruelty

2007-06-26T11:21:00.000+08:00

Saw on the news this morning that people are using CHILDREN to carry bombs! My gosh...I cant understand what the hell these people are thinking!! Just because children are not easily suspected? Just because they look so innocent? Just because they know nothing about what they are carrying? That doesnt mean you people can ake use of them! Even an adult carrying a bomb will be afraid...moreover the kids are not aware of the danger!

These people/soldiers are damn heartless! I wonder if they are parents themselves...will they use their own kids to carry bombs? i doubt that they even have humanity.

This world is coming to an end very soon...that more or less explains the increasing chaos.

Peace

2007-06-24T21:05:00.000+08:00

Did anyone ever wonder what PEACE stands for? In fact, i dun think i've come across anyone who ponder about it.

Anyway, i came up with my own definition of it. Maybe it doesnt make any sense..but, yeah...i just want to post it up...

P = Practically
E = Everybody
A = Auotmatically
C = Caring
E = Everyday

If everyone is showing concern for each other, this world will ultimately be more peaceful...

Yes, its hard for human beings to be selfless..Yet, i think everyone should start by being nice to your love ones or close friends...

Get going today!
Have a great week ahead!

Optimism

2007-06-22T15:10:00.000+08:00

"Always look on the bright side of life..." thats how the song goes.

Being optimistic is something difficult. If someone is born to be pessimistic, its even harder to be positive.Try being positive. Its like learning to cycle.

You fall and you pick yourself up. It repeats a million or a zillion times in a lifetime. Until the last breath, either u leave with a positive mind or a negative mind.

Good luck to those trying hard. Its better than giving up!

Sometimes

2007-06-21T15:25:00.000+08:00

How many FIRST times will there be in a lifetime?
How many times have we struggled through?
How many times did we felt regretful throughout our lifes?

The answer may be unknown.

But be assured that there will ALWAYS be a SOMETIME.

Sometimes, we get lost.
Sometimes, we get weary.
Sometimes, we get angry.
Sometimes, we get moody.
Sometimes, we are happy.
Sometimes, we are excited.

There will always be a sometime, someday.

Beauty

2007-06-20T11:40:00.000+08:00

" The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen, nor touched ... but are felt in the heart."

Helen Keller

Introduction

2007-06-19T14:26:00.001+08:00

Hello,

Actually, there is no need for an introduction.
Reason being that there would'nt be many readers who will come across this blog.
Well, put aside all that.
Im a creation of GOD, a daughter of a mum, a dad & a being on earth.
Does that explains my background?

Simple isnt it? =)

Have a nice day!