Everyone has their own level of tolerance towards different things or people. I believe that the level of tolerance signifies alot.
我觉得人不管对事物还是人都有自己的极限。。。每个人的容忍度都不一样。 我相信一个人如果对某些事物或对某些人的容忍度越高,就代表了那样东西对他来说有一定的重要或意义。。。但是,我也不否认很多时候,容忍是因为身不由己。 可是,如果不重要,也没有必要容忍。 容忍是为了大家好。如果两个人在一起,没有了容忍。。很多事都会闹得不欢而散吧? 不管是情人,朋友,同事或是两个陌生人,其中一定有些容忍在里头。
如果你目前/曾经体会过一而再再而三地容忍一个人,是不是因为在乎呢?还是因为身不由己?如果因为在乎,那你自在乎的那位应该至少占据了你的情感50%。 为什么呢? its because only the closest person to you will hit 90-100%, and that is the only reason why you can be tolerant no matter what he/she/they do to you. Be it a thousand or a million times, your tolerance is like an infinite immunity vaccine. Once injected, its for life. So, if that person you care for, hits 50%, its more than anything you can imagine. I guess if you ask me, my friends probably hits a range of 20-40%...only one or two will hit 50%. Like what i always hear from people "朋友可以有很多,但知己一两个就够了"。 i guess thats what it meant.
所以,有人类的地方,就有容忍的存在。它可是人类应该有的学问哦!Cheers to all who hit a 50%! :)